How to Start a DivorceCare Ministry
In your church and community, men and women are silently struggling with the pain of separation or divorce. They may feel overwhelmed, broken, and unsure where to turn.
Your church can become a place of hope and healing—by offering DivorceCare. “Thousands of single parents and their children are sitting outside our church doors every Sunday who do not feel like God’s love, acceptance, forgiveness, and grace is for them,” shares Robyn Besemann, church leader and author.
What is DivorceCare?
DivorceCare is a 13-week, Christ-centered ministry that helps people navigate the pain of separation or divorce through supportive groups and other resources. The program is hosted by local churches and led by lay volunteers—people just like you. Through videos featuring counselors, pastors, and personal testimonials, as well as group discussions and biblical resources, participants discover tools for healing, restoration, and a renewed sense of purpose.
Who should lead a DivorceCare group?
You don’t need to be a counselor or pastor to facilitate. DivorceCare was designed for lay leaders with a heart to serve.
A great DivorceCare facilitator is:
- Compassionate and empathetic
- Willing to commit a few hours a week
- Committed to biblical truth
- Experienced with divorce (personally or secondhand), or simply called to serve hurting people
“You don’t need training in counseling. You just need a willing heart.” DivorceCare leader
How to launch your ministry
Step 1: Learn about the program
Watch preview videos, explore the curriculum, and see how it fits into your church’s care strategy.
Step 2: Talk with your pastor
Share your heart for this ministry and gain their support. Most pastors are grateful when members step up to meet real needs.
Step 3: Order a DivorceCare kit
Your kit includes:
- Weekly videos (DVD & streaming)
- Leader’s guide and participant guides
- Promo tools and social media assets
- Templates for emails, flyers, and digital ads
Step 4: Recruit volunteers
Look for people who are kind, good listeners, and emotionally grounded. Some may be former DivorceCare participants themselves.
Step 5: Promote your group
Use the provided materials to invite your church and community. Be sure to post your group on the DivorceCare Find a Group tool to increase visibility.
Step 6: Host your group
Each session includes:
- 30-minute video
- Guided group discussion
- Participant workbook for reflection and growth
Bonus: Ongoing coaching & support
DivorceCare coaches are available to help you every step of the way—from planning your first session to troubleshooting group dynamics. We’re here to make sure you never feel like you’re doing it alone.
Become a beacon of hope
When your church offers DivorceCare, you meet a deeply felt need in your community. You offer help where few others do—and invite people into a healing journey rooted in Christ.
Ready to begin?
